On Mon, 12-3-07 1:44 pm
Sean Taylor, Isaac Cortes, and Benjamin Garrison
Written by Dr MikeFiled under: Praxis
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Make no mistake about this: the death of Sean Taylor was a tragedy.
The circumstances surrounding the professional football player’s death are irrelevant. Whether he lived a wonderful life or a detestable one, Taylor’s death is shocking and tragic. From the reactions of his Washington Redskins teammates, he was a good friend, good teammate, and good football player.
His death was sad.
Not in spite of the aforementioned but rather because of it, I find myself troubled in the aftermath of Taylor’s death. Consider the following story from ESPN:
MIAMI — Thousands filled a university arena Monday for the funeral of Washington Redskins star Sean Taylor, with a video screen behind his casket showing highlights from his career.
The funeral comes a week after Taylor was shot in his home and days after four men were charged with killing him during the robbery. A lawyer for one of the suspects confirmed there was a fifth suspect.
Taylor’s casket was surrounded by bouquets, while the video display showed Taylor from his days with the Redskins, Miami Hurricanes and high school.
Commissioner Roger Goodell said it had been a “sad week” for the NFL family.
“It’s times like this that all of us struggle to find meaning in life,” Goodell told the mourners. “The NFL was proud of Sean Taylor… He loved football and football loved him back. But more importantly, it was what he was as a man and what he was becoming as a man.”
(No offense to Roger Goodell, but if the death of a football player causes you to “struggle to find meaning in life,” your life was overdue for a careful, honest, critical evaluation.)
I watched SportsCenter this morning and listened as the story was told again how Taylor was killed in his home on Nov 27th, just a week ago. Teammates were interviewed after the Redskins’ 17-16 loss to Buffalo yesterday. The players talked about how they missed him and how difficult it was to pull it together and play the game in his honor, and how they wished they could have won the game “for Sean.”
I was disturbed as I watched and listened. It was not because of anything that was said or done, but rather because of another story not picked up by ESPN – or any other major media outlet, to my knowledge – that told the story of two other young men who were killed on Nov 27th, too.
In contrast to the thousands of words written about Sean Taylor, here is the story I read about Isaac Cortes and Benjamin Garrison:
DoD Identifies Army Casualties
The Department of Defense announced today the death of two soldiers who were supporting Operation Iraqi Freedom. They died Nov. 27 in Amerli, Iraq, of wounds suffered when their vehicle encountered an improvised explosive device. They were assigned to the 1st Squadron, 71st Cavalry Regiment, 1st Brigade Combat Team, 10th Mountain Division (Light Infantry), Fort Drum, N.Y.
Killed were:
Pvt. Isaac T. Cortes, 26, of Bronx, N.Y.
Spc. Benjamin J. Garrison, 25, of Houston, Texas.
That represents everything I know about these two United States soldiers who died on the same day as Sean Taylor. Nobody interviewed their comrades or asked them if it was hard to go back into battle – or to continue in the battle – after the IED had cut short their friends’ lives. I don’t know if there are elaborate memorials scheduled for their funerals or if their local newspapers will write something about their lives and deaths. Being from major metropolitan areas, I doubt it.
And I don’t know if some commissioner somewhere will “struggle to find meaning” as a result of their deaths. I, for one, won’t because the lives and deaths of Cortes and Garrison made sense. They lived and died for something worth living and dying for, and their deaths are noble rather than senseless.
Taylor died a millionaire. He made a lot of money playing a boy’s game for the entertainment of thousands and thousands of people. His name is recognizable – at least for now – and his picture has been everywhere in the media.
Cortes and Garrison, I suspect, were not millionaires when they died. They fought a man’s war for the safety of millions and millions of people. They labored and died in virtual obscurity, never having been famous enough to be forgotten.
When I consider the two stories and contrast the responses of our nation to the death of a semi-famous athlete and that of two unknown soldiers, I am troubled. I wonder what in the hell our nation has come to that the tragic death of an athlete can garner so much attention and the deaths of two soldiers result in so little.
The death of Sean Taylor, as I said, was a tragedy, but he was no hero. The deaths of Isaac Cortes and Benjamin Garrison were every bit as tragic and, along with thousands of others who have sacrificed their lives for us, they are heroes.
As Christians, especially, we must be absolutely certain and careful to keep our values and priorities right. All three deaths are tragedies, but the deaths of Cortes and Garrison are qualitatively different from that of Sean Taylor. We need to make note of that fact and honor all with the honor which they are due.
I am Isaac’s cousin and for this article I thank you on behalf of my whole family. Isaac meant the world to us and to leave us so soon was such a tragedy and has caused such a void in our hearts. Many find the time to belittle and disrespect his memory to get their points across but you have not done so…and for this I thank you…
Arlene:
Thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m honored that you commented.
I don’t know what to say other than “Thank you” to the families of Isaac and Benjamin and all the others who have gone through what you are going through. I can do no better than to quote from The Lord of the Rings:
A quick note lest the above – “nor the warrior for his glory” – be misunderstood. The character who uttered these words was a soldier and warrior himself, and had lost his brother in the war. He praised the men, not for their accomplishments on the battlefields, but for their heroism, sacrifice, and – especially – for who there were apart from being soldiers.
It is not the loss of Isaac and Benjamin as soldiers that is to be mourned, but the loss of them as young men. They were more than merely soldiers, though good soldiers they were.
Good word, Mike, and I’m glad to see one of the soldier’s family has found your essay.
Thanks, Milton. I really don’t know what to say to Ms Anthony or Ms Balarezo (see below): I’m grateful, of course, but also (I guess) a bit in awe that they commented.
I got the following this morning from Carla Balarezo; she was unable to leave a comment and chose to email me instead.
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Hi,
I am Garrison’s wife and I want to thank you for this article. I have been fighting with the media because they kept saying that he joined the army to support his wife, which was not true. These 2 men joined the army to serve their country. They knew that they were putting their life on the line for our freedom. Ben will always be my hero, no matter if he was in the army or not. He will be missed but never forgotten. Let’s now keep the boys that are still over there in Iraq in our prayers and our thoughts. Because they are the true heroes…
And to the Cortes family, despite all this sadness, my heart hurts a little less knowing that they are together. Knowing that they didn’t go alone. I send you my condolences.
Dr. Fin,
I think you are absolutely right in this article, yes the football player dying was sad, but… what did he do for America? I am sad the man died…I’m angry that those in Iraq keep dying and I feel like Bush doesn’t do enough to protect them. Why are we still over there anyway? He got Sadam and the weapons he wanted…send those boys home. I’m a friend of Ben, and it hurt to see him go, and I agree just like America mourned Sean Taylor they need to be mourning Ben, and Mr. Cortes and everybody else who lost their lives. I just think everyone has their priorites mixed up….so I thank you for writing that article.
Thank you for opening our eyes to a media and political groups whom care more about the entertainment and sensation of a story and not the impact or concern for the lives of people that they affect. Ben was a kind heart and lost his life while protecting all of us.
I served with Ben Garrison. His wife sent me the link to this site. Thank you thank you thank you for what you have written. To know that SOMEONE outside of our military has heard their names, and is thinking of them is a blessing.
Thank you for your words… I am in Ben and Isaacs troop right now and I can\’t imagine the pain that their families are going through… my heart goes out to the families that have made the sacrifice – a sacrifice that will echo throughout their lives…
It can be disheartening to see a nation where football players and millionaires\’ lives hold more value than the lives of the countless soldiers, marines, sailors and airmen who sacrifice so much for the safety and freedoms of those who choose to honor the \”popular fold.\”
Let the truth be told however that it is better to be honored by few, who will hold on to that honor for the rest of their lives, than to be honored by the masses, who are fickle and will forget within the next month…
Thank you again for your words and, to Ben and Isaac\’s family, thank you for your sacrifice and support. It is you who I honor and recognize… you are the heroes to me…
Thank you for speaking the truth. These guys done more for the country in two months than most “famous people” will ever do in their lifetime.
The “honor” given to celebrities will never be close to the real Honor given to unsung heroes like Garrison and Cortes. I will never forget them, the ones close to them will never forget them. It was an honor to serve with them.